BDSM - Bahaya Dalam Kenikmatan?

Adakah uols berminat dengan BDSM? Apa dia BDSM? Mak petik meaning dia dari Wikipedia kat bawah ni:

BDSM is a form of consensual play (which may or may not include sex) between two or more individuals, who use their experiences of pain and power to create sexual tension, pleasure, and release. The compound acronym, BDSM, is derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D, B/D, or BD),dominance and submission (D&s, D/s, or Ds), sadism and masochism (S&M, S/M, or SM).^[1]

BDSM includes a wide spectrum of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. Many of these experiences are still considered to fall out of conventional sexual activities and human relationships.

Activities and relationships within a BDSM context are characterized by the fact that the participants usually take on complementary, but unequal, roles. Typically, participants who are active — applying the activity or exercising control over others — are known as tops or Dominants. Those participants who are recipients of the activities, or who are controlled by their partners, are typically known as bottoms or submissives. Individuals who move between top/dominant roles and bottom/submissive roles – either periodically within a relationship, or from relationship to relationship – are known as switches.^[2]

Mak pun ada juga minat ke arahBDSM ni tetapi so far tak pernah lagi la mak experience benda tu walaupun ada keinginan nak mencuba. Antara aktiviti BDSM yang sering didengari ialah bondage atau dibelengu. Lihat pic di bawah yang mak  ambik dari Wikipedia ni. Nilah dikatakan bondage. Walaupun ada keinginan, mak takut juga hendak mencuba bila memikirkan jika rakan kita tu berniat jahat dan tidak mahu melepaskan belengu lalu teruskan dengan aktiviti yang lebih ganas. Ini because kita tidak berdaya hendak mengelak sebab kedua tangan telah diikat dan mungkin juga kaki pun sama. Uols ingat tak kisah kematian David Carradine di sebuah hotel di Bangkok? Insiden-insiden yang macam tu lah buatkan mak rasa takut untuk mencuba bondage ni. Then uols baca pula berita kat bawah tentang kematian seorang hairstylist. Ni pun mak rasa disebabkan aktiviti seksual secara BDSM juga.

JOHOR BARU: The hairstylist who was found dead – naked, bound and gagged – died of heart failure brought upon by excessive excitement during an unnatural sex game.

Nusajaya OCPD Supt Abdul Aziz Ahmad said the post-mortem showed that Tang Kin Kok, 49, had internal bleeding that could have been caused by sexual stimulation.

He added that the victim also had multiple signs of penetration in his anus.

“The heart failure could have been triggered as the victim became too excited when committing unnatural sex,” Supt Abdul Aziz said yesterday.

He said that while the post-mortem showed no criminal element leading to the death, police had identified a few of Tang’s male acquaintances to help in the investigation.

“We are going to detain them soon,” he said, adding that anyone who knew the victim was encouraged to come forward.

Tang’s body was found by a housemate in his room at a rented house in Bandar Selesa Jaya around 9.50pm on Saturday.