Ni mak ambik dari sggurls Yahoo Group. Mak rasa ni info untuk jantanz-jantanz yang minat ngan maknyah dan ingin menjadikan maknyah tu as dia punya girlfriend kot. Mak pun tatau dari mana sumber panduan ni. But nothing wrong nak try kan?Tapi kalau uol guys yang cuba, janganlah salahkan mak ye. Mak just nak kongsi saja.
We've all been there - you know, wearing the best clothes, choosing the right restaurant, starting a conversation, holding someone's attention, getting your acts together, and hoping not to fumble before it's over. It's dating time, a social ritual for all designed to find your match. But how do you date a T girl? Some men, most of whom barely new in the TG scene, have asked me for advice on taking T girls on a date. Although meeting the right one is difficult enough to accomplish, dating one the right way is perhaps even improbable if they are doing it for the first time. Let me save you the added anxiety and agony on top of dealing with a fierce creature like a T girl. Here are ten dating rules that I hope will work magic on you:
1. Ask first what she wants and likes to do on a date. Don't assume that whatever you plan would be alright with her. Knowing what she prefers and deferring to her wishes are hallmarks of a gentleman.
2. Pick her up from her apartment. Insist on meeting wherever she may be. Bring her flowers or a box of sweets. Open doors for her. This will show that you care enough for her.
3. Dress to impress. Dabble in some cologne that isn't too overpowering. Be neat. Looking good will please your date more than yourself.
4. Focus the conversation on her - her interests, activities, goals, and her desires. If she asks you questions, respond as politely and honestly as you can, but always make her the topic of your exchanges at least on your first date. Getting to know her better will help you direct your next move.
5. Dinner on a first date is always preferable. Choose a nice restaurant where intimacy is possible. Better yet, let her pick the venue. She surely knows where the best ones are. Good food, good wine, and good company are good signs on a first date.
6.Pay for everything. Be cavalier and be very generous. Don't be a cheapskate. For T girls, it's not the money that matters but the gesture that someone is doing it for her. This will be incredible in the long haul.
7. Kiss if you must. Hold hands if you both feel like it. But don't assume you are getting her to bed on your first date. Flirting is safe, but being overtly sexual and aggressive about it is just perverse. T girls like romance too. If you are serious about her, by all means take her seriously. She isn't a sex machine, but a person with feelings.
8. Take her home. Say thank you for a lovely evening. Make sure you part ways on her doorsteps or in front of her building. Don't ruin the romance by jumping into sex right away. Let you and her wait until maybe on the third date. If she can't keep her hands to herself, then you can play hard even when you are hard in your pants yourself. Leave her wanting because she will certainly want to see you again.
9. Make the call. Leaving a text message saying how much you enjoy the night and her company is acceptable within 24 hours of the first date. Call her within three days and ask if she wants to see you again. If she does, make a plan to see her again in one week. If you really want to pursue her, be very proactive. Time is of the essence. You surely don't want to lose her interest.
10. Finally, if it turns out to be a date from hell and she is actually a real bitch, then you just have to charge it to experience. Forget about her and stop whining about it. Move your sorry ass onto the next girl. Dating is a process where you have to keep doing it until you find the right one for you. There is no guarantee that the first T girl you date is the one you wish to be your match, but you can always have a first date with as many T girls as you wish.
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