My Husband is crossdressing and it is soooo uncomfortable

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Pengadu ini : A female age 18-21

Ok this is going to be complicated.

My husband of over a year has started to act a little different. At first I found out that he likes backdoor play, and not on me on him! Then a few weeks ago he started wearing my undies, Telling me that they were morcomfortable. I thought nothing of it and let it slide. Then one day he asked me if i would like to dress him up and put makeup on it. I'm a niave teenage girl, And curiosty killed the cat. So I did. Well, I seem to have let this go a little to far because now he wants to dress like a girl all the time! Not in public but just at home. He also wants to have sex with me while wearing makeup and girl clothes. Wel, Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with race, sexuality, sex, religion, etc. I know this is probably going to sound a bit hypocritical, but what he is doing makes me SOOO uncomfortable. I tried talking to him about this, explaining that it makes me very uncomfortable, but He doesn't understand my reasons. I thought I was clear enough, but I don't think we are on the same page. I don't want this to go any further than it already has, not only becasue it makes me uncomfortable, but because we have a young daughter and I don't want her to get the wrong idea about her daddy. Any advice would be wonderful, I'm really at a loss of how to get my husband to understand!

Thank you!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008):

He's not going to change. I went thru the same thing, I was not able to have anyone stop buy our house, I would have to make sure our son didn't just walk into our bedroom. The way to know that things are not going to change is when you tell him how it makes you feel, and you don't like it! And he still continues to do it knowing you are uncomfortable and unhappy. If that is the case He doesn't Love You, if He doesn't care if what he does makes you unhappy or doesn't care what you think of him!

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A female reader, Laura1318 +, writes (23 January 2008):

Women's undies are more comfortable . There are men who wear women's undies. He has a fetish for woman's clothes or he could be a transsexual.A woman in a man's body. He maybe born a man but feels like a woman .He could be slowly finding his own sexuality.He is not gay or bi.(Google the word , 'transsexual' to learn more about their behaviors.) Since , his behavior is only confined to the home, his case is not full blown yet or he would be dressing it all the time inside and outside the house. You will have to accept and tolerate his behavior at home and let your daughter understand. It is not a kind of sickness but transsexuals are not made, they are born with this kind of bisexual behaviors. You will have to be more understanding and hope that this is only a fad and he gets tired of it. Some daughters can understand why their dads behave that way.I have friends who are transsexuals and their daughters accept their transsexual dads.